Stop in for a cup of coffee

See that's my issue. The new changes are just making it tough to stay around. I mean, this whole transgender BS is one part of that. I dont care for how they are dealing with it, let them serve for all I care but the fact all they have to do is go to the CO and say "hey I feel more like a man(or woman), and get access to the opposite sex's facilities AND get to do the physical standards of their preferred gender for APFT they are held too is just too much.
I've heard boot camp is totally neutered. Some of the things I hear about my step daughters half brothers are going thru is unbelievable.
When I was in, there was what seemed to be an active program to put down all the hard charging Nam vets like dogs you no longer wanted. I lost friends (and not in a good way).