Stop in for a cup of coffee
My Mother-in-law is here for the next two weeks. She is a wonderful lady and I'm happy to have her here. We haven't seen her for nearly 2 years since we have been dealing with supporting my brother-in-law and his liver cancer and eventual transplant. She couldn't visit because the stress was sending her BP up to dangerous levels when dealing with him and the illness (plus his being a complete idiot).
Now that he has the new liver, she is able to visit without stress and has come to the same conclusion that we have about him being an idiot and just letting him live the rest of his life however he wants...without all of us.
It's like we gave the dumb-*** BIL a two year ride to get him home during a storm (liver transplant) and now that we have dropped him off...we can forget about him again.
And everyone here finds that thought completely liberating...