Stop in for a cup of coffee
Sadly, not my call. Tried to discuss it with my wife, who's equally pissed about the whole thing, but we cannot do that to her two kids, who are having a bad enough time as it is. I know my mother in law goes and picks them up every afternoon and takes them swimming, and then feeds them supper, otherwise, they'd not eat. It's getting so bad, everyone is considering getting the court involved on her behavior towards the kids. Her now ex husband works evenings so he gets them every time he can, every weekend etc and he does stuff like a parent should, but its the sister in law thats the problem, wanting to act like shes 16 again and not take care of her almost 40 yr old self and her responsibilities thats the ultimate cause.