Moog - I've lost confidence

I spent well over $1K on Moog front end parts for my 01Ram 3500. The rubber boot seal for the lower ball joint would not fit on the machined spigot, and I tore the boot trying to make it fit. I sent them a letter, explaining that their parts don't fit each other, and I needed new seals. They told me to buy some more ball joints, they don't service individual parts. So I had to buy another ball joint, and not seat the seal. The seal now just sits there, thinking about holding in grease and keeping out dirt and water. They used to be the best and the go to brand, now they are just more import crap.