Well, I've been remodeling our home for her (more than me) and as it's coming toward completion, she's more than appreciative of my hard work. I also work hard at my full time job and am nearing retirement, so that all inspired the conversation and her heart felt desire for me to enjoy the rest of my life, without regrets. I really want to get in on the Hellcat "action", as I missed out on the cool 60's muscle cars because I couldn't afford them. She's very much in favor of and trusts I'll make my decisions within our means.
