Lost my Dad this week,
Very sorry for the loss of your Father !
It is one of the toughest things to go through.
You are blessec that your Dad had his affairs in order !
My brother and I lost our Dad 5 years ago.
As hard as it was , We were blessed enough to be with our Dad and hold his hand as he took his last breathe.
However for us the rest was a tradgedy to say the least !
He did not finish his will and through a technicality , we did not get any of his cars and other possessions that everybody knew were for us.
It was very painful to see stuff for sale at swap meets ect.
Not even our childhood photos or family heirlooms.
The fact remains , memories can never be stolen !
Peace be with you !
Hopefully if you are not close to your brother , this will inspire change.