I hear you on that one FOG. Fortunately the boys have adjusted to the separation. Thankfully the boys and the stepdaughter decided to stay with their dad, they were all given the chance to pick one or the other. When her daughter didn't want to go with her that tells you something. Since the separation the daughter has been brainwashed by the mom and has since moved to her place. It funny because the mom totally ignored her since birth and my son raised her since she was 3 yrs old and now 19. We know she has only sucked up to the daughter so she would encourage the boys to move to her place 4 hours away from our son. Believe me she's a piece of work and she's laying guilt trips on the boys trying to get them to move there. She's after the child support so she can support her pot habit. She goes through a 1000 dollars of weed a month, it has to be the high end stuff. What a tangled web we weave. Other than that she's a sweetheart LOL NOT!!!!