Can you guys identify which lug nuts I have?

Are you trying to save the wheels or what its bolted to. You might be able to drill out the lugs from one or the other side.
Also there us an unusual universal socket that has small round rods in side. https://www.amazon.com/Wingour-Universal-socket-wrenches-universal/dp/B07911QFSW/?tag=fabo03-20

Might work