Got the same problem with one of my Daughter in laws, She works for the state and has to report any child abuse. Well so happens that one of my boys with his 4 kids are living in there garage for the last 4 months waiting to move to there new place out of State. My Daughter in law turned them in for child abuse and never even been to my sons place. Needless to say I am pissed and she is no longer welcome in my house. I am a nice guy most of the time but like you we can only take so much.