Stop in for a cup of coffee

So for this the fuse box is the Battery. A circuit just goes from the fuse box to the headlight. Goes thru two switches, the headlight switch and the dimmer switch. Both are in Matts circuit he posted. The battery powers the fuse box....And the headlights do not have a fuse. They have a circuit breaker in the headlight switch. Self resetting.
That connection in your car, is a welded splice connection. You need to remove all the wrapping to see it. It is the wire coming from the Alt.