It sounds to me like; for your stated useage,
"I'm aiming for a streetable car with a very good low-end that will be fun and fast but still driveable near daily."
That the 408 might be overkill....Hang on, I'm not trying to rain on your parade.
It's just that if your budget is that tight, I would swap the stroker in a heartbeat, for the aluminum heads. The 367 practically falls together at 10.8 Scr with 63CC Eddies. And together with .....say that SEH 2832, it would make cylinder pressure around 175psi, and you can run E87 on that; I do. You can't run that much pressure at all with iron heads. And if you put 63cc iron heads on the stroker,and use that same 2832 cam your pressure might go too high for pumpgas. But let's say you somehow get it down to 160psi. At that point and below 3000rpm, your 408 might show similar performance to a 367, also below 3000 rpm.................... so......... say 80% of the time or more, the 367 would be sufficient. The 367, at 175psi, will spin 275/60-15 BFG-TAs to 50/60 mph with 3.91/4.10s easy. It will spin 325/50-15 Comp T/As to the same. Actually, mine does it with a 4 speed and 3.55s, so second gear is 6.82 ratio for me, whereas for you; 6.82 would require 4.70s, before factoring in the TC; so say minimum 4.10s, to absolutely annihilate the tires..
But
Where the 408 will come in handy is in third gear......... sometime after 85 mph. You go there much? Another reason to run the 408, is so you can run a hiway gear,and still have a strong bottom-end left over, without running a monster TC. And another is cylinder pressure; you can soften it up to run pump gas and again; still have a tire fryer.
The only reason I mention these things is because you said;
"Any input at all is appreciated. I have read a LOT about engine building but have not had much experience myself (yet),Thanks for your time and help"; And because your budget is so tight.
Up here, Canada, the Eddies and proper valvegear cost me about $3000, back in 1999, while stroker kits were about $2000/2500. I have never been sorry about my decision.
Whatever you decide, forget that 1850, and
Happy HotRodding