As soon as I read your first post I figured something like this. Your a good egg for trying to help, Just be careful and remember to take care of yourself. Your doing great, but you ain't a kid with unlimited resources. Taking in my father in law was a huge stress on us physically, financially etc. And we did not have to pay a dime of his medical. If they find a way to link to your funds your screwed. You don't want to move the kids, but what will happen to them long term? Easier to move them at a young age...