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halifaxhops said

I have been out since yesterday when I got back. This UBER stuff is absolutely killing my time, get home and dizzy as hell. Told her no more of it. F it I am done. Then she make a lame excuse about having a turn light out that is why she has not been driving! For a YEAR! Has a appointment with the Mechanic tomorrow at one!

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Sometimes they like to milk your good nature...

My mom tried that on me before she died... She liked the attention and monopolized my time... My kid and I got in a huge arguement that I wasn't spending enough time with them... I realized at that time that he was right... Especially since I had a talk with her not too long before that and got her to admit that she wasn't working/trying to loose the weight that was the reason that I was trying to help her so much.... I was putting more effort into helping her than she was putting in herself, a no win situation... I had to tell her in December that the "Karl taxi service" is going out of business at the beginning of the year...

I had to put my kids before her... I didn't want to, but I had to because I needed to be a dad to my kids as I was their sole caregiver...