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ZMan67S said

Nice homemade thoughtful things. I'm happy with whatever they give me. Just to a point of how old do you give adult kids presents??
The one daughter who gave nothing for the third year in a row, not even a card, is the one we help support with her kids dirt bike racing. I know they wrap all their extra $$ into that sport but really.
She also didn't even call and wish me a Happy Birthday this year. I told Cheryl not to remind her and never heard from her....ho hum.
We will always do birthdays, but xmas presents are really for the kids....and understand the TRUE meaning of Christmas. JMO

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This year I faced the same dilemma with my side of the family. I cut them all off. They never call, never text, never ask about my kids or us. Only time was during the ones wedding. So we decided why waste the time and money on people who don’t care? My advice is to do Christmas as always, but only with those who care and actually want to do it. As for how old to stop getting gifts, never. My wife is 32, her sister is 39, both still get gifts from their parents, usually just a card or something small. Remember, Christmas is about giving and being with people who youbhave relationships with. Or so my pastor told me