We pretty much stopped when the kids hit 21. We have the meal that's about it. They understand what they still cost me just in medical. $598 a month more than 1/3 my pay. I think they appreciate it. This year it will go way down the Daughter gets married and the son hits 26. That will help us out a lot, just the wife then. I looked into Tricare here really would be a real PIA in this area with all her issues. Just found out in June a lot of her doctors will no longer take Blue Cross with the Pinical health network. This is going to really suck finding new docs for here especially the Medical Marijuana one.