She's being a pain. Acts like shes dying and wont do anything for herself and complains about everything. Wont go in a home, which she could afford. Shes a bit of a hoarder too. My wife isn't very patient with people who wont help themselves. I realize getting old sucks but she's pretty healthy in all reality. Brain is a little mushy. Would be nice to not have to feed her and worry about her falling or something.