Flickering or pulstating Headlights

It's been pretty dang solid the past few times I drove the car since doing the regulator relay mod, even at idle. Lights still dim a bit but no more flickering. I'll have to dive deep into my wiring to find the bad connection as I did the ammeter bypass slightly different than the "MAD" method I just forget how exactly. I also want to move the ON signal for my wideband O2 sensor so it doesn't turn on with the key in Accessory position, I'm afraid I'm gonna burn it up.
The relay mod works just about every time. If you put the adjustable regulator in then you could adjust the voltage up a bit making your lights brighter at idle. I have mine set at 14.5 volts when driving.