Oh God, I hear you 100 % most people will not believe you but doI , I swapped 3.23 for 4.10 and they actually felt the exact same, I did not feel any difference let alone that "Smash" off the line with the lower gears (4.10) Even on the highway wasI doing about 2500 (give or take 1-200 rpm difference) at 60 mph.
Finally someone who see what felt.