Ultimate home defence pistol?

Speaking of glock what is the best for a medium sized hand.
Wanting to do the 80%er build.
I have seen those 80 percent glock frames. I have yet to find a slide kit that is affordable enough to make it worth it. From what I've found it would cast more to do a 80% then just buy a new or used glock.
I found a place online that use to sale police trade ins very reasonably.