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memike said
Brother has Terminal lung cancer, his last days will be filled by me... Later men..

Sorry to hear, but good that you can be there for him.

Sublime one said
MeM,
I have walked the path you are now on, as many on this thread have. There are no truer words than to spend and cherish every moment with your Brother. In the end I was left with the decision to unplug mine.

I wasn't able to be there physically when my brother finally passed. Not cancer, but basically all systems failure. Had to make the call to shut the machines down by phone. The fact that he was not coming back again does not make it feel any better. But at some point you have to let them move on, so you can too.