Stop in for a cup of coffee

I sold a bunch of stuff on ebag several years ago. Some big stuff... Two items went to the west coast. Both were boxed up. There was a child's vanity that legs came off and a huge wooden flat belt drive mill wheel. One of them made it to its destination in like a week. The other one meandered all over the country. Even passed through a couple places twice. Finally got there in about a month.
I sent a box of stuff to Vietnam back in December. Odds and ends, And.... Some cigars, to be there in advance of me... They called my gf and told her they could not accept the package because of the Cigars. I'm like WTF. What now... She said, they'll send it back. I'm like ... Sure... They will keep and sell the Cigars for big money there....I went and came back from VN over the months of Feb- March........In May
.. I got the box back from the VN post office. WTF?????