No one insulted you. There are guys on here who've been doing this a long, long time. I've never seen an engine mount that thick on a passenger car. Ever.
You're beating the crap out of your headers. You're getting new headers and have the same issue.
It's time to step back, take a breath and consider you have other issues.
Again, I wouldn't use any other mount than the moroso solid mount. Ever. As I say that,I'm kicking myself right square in the arse. You see, I have a 73 A body, which means I have the crappy 73 K member with the crappy 73 style engine mount.
When I rebuilt the engine and the entire front end, I looked and looked and looked and looked and couldn't find a 67-72 K member within a 10 hour drive or I would have went and picked it up.
Any rubber/poly mount, any of them is a giant compromise. Get rid of them. The moroso mounts are cheap. The car will drive better with the floppy rubber/poly mounts. And your headers will probably fit.
I'll find a 67-72 K member one of these days. When I do, I'll snatch that up, order some moroso mounts and finally be happy.
So no one is insulting you. We are trying to help, and you are trying not to listen.