The B&M Pro Ratchet is the real deal. SCREW the rest. If you have never used one, FIND someone who has one you can try. You will NOT want anything else.
The one I have is a B&M ratchet T handle 2 fingers in the lift knob to get it reverse or park and works great but hurts my hand on the angle to pull up the lever. My hands are about shot is why I need something a little easier to use.