I drove to Arkansas at the age of 16 to meet my father and older brother, it was a good thing I was raised around hard working no worldly family because to be honest my older brother was more like a little brother, he had his own bedroom and home his hole life, and the same friends to grow up around (I would have liked it but I am who I am because of being raised around working folks that did not take anything for granted, but it would have been neat to have a home from 7 to 17. Now I am enjoying my first childhood.