Stop in for a cup of coffee

Can’t tell from here either, but I’m inclined to say tell him you are coming next Friday Dec 5th to pick up the car...whether it’s in paint or not.

Give him enough time to decide if it’s a priority to get it done or not...with a hard stop date.
If he really wants it painted by the guy this is exactly what I was thinking. Assuming it is completely ready for paint, that gives him time to still do a good job with it. On the other hand if completely done with the guy, the sooner he pulls it out of there the better. Saying if not done by the Dec 1 with the Holiday and weekend coming would possibly result in a rushed job.