Stop in for a cup of coffee

I do feel bad for helpless people. I try to choose my words carefully.
Guy on another forum needs help with an engine swap in a fargo,i offered to help,pm my info stating we should talk about it. For one, he needs some parts which i offer for free. Said my welder was portable and i would be happy to help. Basically gas money and a few bucks for wire and gas.
Has zero fab experience and is shopping for a welder. I’m out.
Makes you wonder.

I suspect at least for some (many) its the devaluation of skills and knowledge in our society, coupled with the marketing man's hype that buying the gadget will provide the means and ability.