@FISHYPETE I sure am sorry. You should go to your local shelter and find a new friend. They are in need everywhere. I am going to find Kitty another one, but she doesn't know it yet. Friendly tolerated me, but he loved Kitty a lot. He was her cat. Before he disappeared for the 3 1/2 year span, he was just fine with me and we actually think he was more my cat. On his return, he was very skiddish of me, unless I sat down in the yard swing or the front porch, then he would come to me. We think a man somewhere mis treated him while he was gone. At least he got to come back home and he died with his boots on on his own back porch.