Stop in for a cup of coffee

We had some bad times tonight. Went to a upscale restaurant for a bite. Stood around for 18 min. and no one came to the desk to greet us. We turned around and left. We cruised to a neighborhood bar known for good food. Got a beer, wife a drink. Server asked if we wanted a menu. Waited at least 20 min and he came back with a menu. Same guy comes back and asks me if I want another beer. Doesn't ask if we wanted to order. Some other guy comes back in 10 min and asks for our order. "No thanks, check please" wtf!