Stop in for a cup of coffee

So I am on SS disability, Get money directly deposited, However, I file jointly with my wife. So Tax refunds go to her account, different from where the SS goes to. Guess what, Our money went all to her account. Interesting....
I saw that it would be processed as one. Ours goes to joint account, so that’s not a question
that was me

I used Turbotax and filed jointly, direct deposited already. I got mine on the 12th, but a 3 day bank hold released the funds on the 15th
hmmm