Stop in for a cup of coffee

Yea. But that's like saying the war in China wasn't so bad 'cause my old man was there and what he saw and went through wasn't bad.
when you know the details of course his perspective was accurate - for where he was. But its not the big picture.
I get what you're saying, but this image pops to mind..

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or this one...

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or this one..

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