I understand. I agree. No problem :)
It seems that every time I get asked questions like 'can you guide me.. teach me where to grind?', INEVITABLY they'll ask, "so, what do you think they'll flow?" (knowing they want what all the magazines are repeating for numbers)
Like you say, we're skinning two different cats !
Kudo's to you, and moparofficial for taking the time with someone who 'just wants to learn'.
I don't know about you, but that's how I started