Ez, just heat the connection till it melts, the solder, then put the de soldering braid on the connection, leave about 1 inch from where you are touching, and put soldering iron/gun on the top of the braid, till it gets hot and draws in the solder off of the connection. Might have to repeat a couple times with new un touched braid, as it get full of solder, just cut it off to a fresh spot..
NOW I GET IT!!!!! Over my head that time......:rofl: