You're right, let's break this down into facts-
OMM- Has never installed a poly bushing that hasn't failed in a short period of time, according to him. That includes multiple brands of bushings, different applications, and even different vehicles if you read his responses.
72blu- Has never installed a poly bushing that has failed, in some cases that includes over a decade of use and tens of thousands of miles. That also includes multiple brands of bushings, different bushing applications, and vehicles.
If you eliminate the brand of the poly bushing, the application, the use, and even the vehicle they're installed in, you've eliminated every commonality between all of those poly bushings except for one. The guy that installed them. That's the only thing in common between all of the failed poly bushings that OMM has installed. All of them failed, and all of them were installed by the same guy. Literally nothing else is the same, and that's according to him.
I've never had a poly bushing fail. I'm not saying in the history of poly bushings that a bad one has never been made, but none of the ones I've installed has ever failed. Heck so far none of them have even worn out, although I'm sure they will eventually. I've used them on classic cars, I've used them on modern cars, I've used them on 4wd trucks. I've used poly LCA bushings, poly sway bar bushings, poly radius arm bushings, poly cab and body mounts, etc. Some of those bushings have been on my vehicles for over a decade.
Yes, there are applications where I wouldn't use a poly bushing, like on the strut rods of these cars for the reasons I explained earlier. If you understand how the bushing is supposed to function, and you understand how the material works in that application, you can intelligently decide what materials will improve performance in that application and which ones won't. If you don't understand that, you're just slapping parts together and hoping things work.
Clearly, I'm not the only person here that has successfully installed a poly bushing. And I know that they won't last forever and they're not right for every application, but the same is true of rubber bushings.