HELP I need a reliable used car

"Certified Pre-owned". What does that mean? I'm guessing very little.
"I 'only' owe 12k on it". I can't imagine owing $12,000 on a 8 year old car. (Or any car, for that matter. SAVE money!)
My wife and I bought an '07 Accord in '09. 17,000 miles. We paid $12,225. It now has 105,000 miles and I'd drive it anywhere. Other than a couple glitches in the power windows (fixed myself with a factory service manual), nothing but regular maintenance. We've been saving $220 per month since then if it gives us any serious trouble. (We paid cash for it because we were saving to buy a car back then, too.
I'm not beating you up. I'm trying to show you that there are ways to avoid your situation. Oh, btw, I love my old cars. But I wouldn't if I had to depend on them every day. An old vehicle may appear to be your answer. But I really hope you don't believe that.
I appreciate your perspective. I drive about 40k miles a year for work. I chose the diesel because of that. Before the fix that Volkswagen did because of their fraud they actually worked very well. Is it even possible to live without debt in today’s world? Everything is so over priced and totally disposable.