It is terrible, out of five children he is the only knuckle head. And he is a piece of work. When he started the drug abuse stuff I was supportive right up until the thievery. Once you start stealing from family a line has been crossed. We tried to get him in Army as his Brother was a recruiter at the time but he would not even do that. He has been tossed out of every family members home he has landed in, and burned every bridge. I am sympathetic to a point but when he starts F bombing his Mom when she is trying to help him I am done. I just have to walk away and let them sort it out. Apparently strangling him is not a acceptable option.