I've been a 3+ pack a day smoker for 35+ years. Haven't had a smoke for 45 hours.
It's really good to hear you are hanging in there and not smoking!! 1000 atta boys!!
I also quit before my wife did. But thankfully I was ready to quit after 25 years and it didn't bother me. It didn't take her too long to give 'em up after me. Maybe 6 months or so.
Keep it up!!! Food will start tasting much better.