Respectfully request advice as newly divorced dad

The best way to do it is to set it up through the state. You send the money to the state and they distribute it to your EX. The state keeps track of all the money you've sent to her. I've heard of many guys (in Texas), who out of the kindness of their heart, sent money to their Ex and later found that it didn't count towards child support because the EX said that she never received anything. They ended up owing thousands of dollars even though they had sent the correct amount for years. Going through the state ensures that there's no way she can say that you didn't give her money for your daughter. She deceived you once, do you think she would do it again????
I'm sure there are other FABO member's who might have better first hand advice!!