I think for the most part, people really want to help, but some get offended when their suggestions are not followed.
No one really knows another person's wants, needs, budget or time constraints.
I probably won't update my build thread until it is running. I stated in the beginning that some of the parts weren't great, but they are what I have. Am I leaving power on the table? Yes, a truckload! But, I bet it will run better than the worn out 318 did before it died.
I got a couple "Do it once, do it right" comments, but I personally have no problem swapping cams with the motor in the vehicle. Same goes with intakes and carbs. I just want the dang thing running again.
So, build it and have fun! That is why we do this.