Respectfully request advice as newly divorced dad

Another former contestant here. Hopefully short and to the point.
1. Try your best to not let your emotions fuel your decisions. Anger, hurt, murder...lol

2. Don't just lawyer up... like you go for estimates for a bodyshop or house repair. Sit down with a few (if thats what you feel you need) I settled on one from word of mouth... completely fucked up my divorce. My friend RAVED about her divorce but mine was a pussy when it was my situation. So, if youre not hearing what YOU feel is right for you...WALK. In the long run, a good lawyer is well worth it.

3. Youre going to find out who your true friends are... don't shun a friend to bend an ear. Its a long and yes, financial and emotional roller coaster you'll be on. You got this. Some people fold under the pressure of it and lose sight of life and some kick into gear and meet this head on. I hope for the latter for you. Wish you strength buddy.