Respectfully request advice as newly divorced dad

Best thing that ever happened to me, but the worst thing ever for the kids. I was numb for a year, and took another year to figure out that not all women were like the ex. Start looking around to see if it was planned. My ex had to have planned her "escape" for over year. I'd hate to say what nasty stuff she pulled. Don't get a whimp lawyer. Always take the high road. God is everything. Money is nothing. Raising children is your responsibility. Make sure your daughter knows how much you love her and want to be with her. If your wife was cheating on you, it is war. No quarter. Married a wonderful woman second time around. Nothing better in this life than to have a partner and best friend in everything you do.

This is very similar to how it went for me....she had things planned....a place to go and live, new things like beds, furniture, kitchen stuff....all stored somewhere else till the time came to break the news to me. Later on I didn’t want anything to do with women for awhile, dated a couple crazy ones, but then I met the most wonderful caring woman ever when I wasn’t even looking and we have been married for almost 2 years now....and the kids are all doing great and that’s good cause it’s always hard on them