Hole in the head

Ya, I don’t want to be like my bro in law. He complained for a couple of months about soreness under his arms and a lump on his neck. My sister told him to get checked out many times. Finally she said quit whining or get it checked out. He got it checked out finally Cancer big time. He was on chemo then some pill that would help for 5 years. That was 6 years ago. He has about 8 months left. Pretty sad as he is only 55. Kim