The bottom line is no body can force you to do anything.You always have control but there will be consequences good or bad.You might say they are forcing you to vote or you don't get your say.
No one is controlling you except you.
Then you don't know how control works.... Your comment was no one does anything they don't wan to do. That's not quite right. People choose the less painful thing when dealing with external influences, and pleasure when those influencers are internal.