Haven't been very active here for awhile, probably missed out on alot of things

Mitch it is nasty stuff. We, like many have lost a couple friends. My wife caught it a few weeks ago and has recovered. I got it about the same time. I was home for several days and then admitted to the hospital with double pneumonia. I was in for a week, been home two, and doing really good.
I'll echo your words and say yes, this virus is very real. If you even think you might have it contact your doctor, or a respiratory clinic, and get tested. Those that wait, often wait to long, and often don't a good outcome. Our prayers are with you, and your family.