no kidding, is there a bit of an age difference between you and the missus?
as far as my inlaws are concerned, my father in law died a few years ago, and we moved her mom in with us
one of the things that just flat out annoys me is the fact that i seem to care more about her then her own kids do
yesterday, i took the kids to the movies, had to leave at 2.00 sharp
her brother was supposed to be here by 1.45 to watch his own mom
i left the house at 2.05, and he didnt get there untill 2.15
that may not sound like a big deal, but thats a whole half hour, try showing up late for work
then they had taken off the bed linnen, but didnt bother washing it, so when i came back home, her mom was in bed, without any linnen on it
honestly, i feel like they cause more trouble then they are worth