I am she is divorced .
1st wife died suddenly 2 weeks before our 20th anniversary . She was being treated for cancer for the last 3 years. So I had time to except the inevitable .
What got her was an aneurism on her brain and that was not expected .
That was a blessing in disguise GG. She missed the final stages of cancer and it would have been quick. What more could someone ask for. Didn't make it any better for you though. Hope you've found happiness once more.