If you have been involved with a Terminal cancer patient step on in...
Ex MIL had pancreatic cancer, had surgery and was given the all clear, less than a year later it was back in the liver, she was gone in 3 months. Her body gave up, she went from about 160 lbs to 75 lbs in the 3 months, family was devastated, personally I would not be surprised if she had not been upfront with her husband the first go round, she kept her cards pretty close to the vest.