Am I being played

Just gonna say this thread is turning into something I hope all of this type of thread doesn't.

People are starting to guess and say "I bet is was..." etc. Maybe not an actual quote, but when people start these, then don't say who they are talking about, it almost always happens. Does no good in my opinion but to stir people up.

Now, on the good side, if people read past the bad and realize there are some good tidbits of experience at work here, that's a good thing I think. I'm one who benefits from that sort of thing often, but anyone who has an id that looks remotely like "blubywhatever" is going to be suspect and that's not cool. I realize the OP is trying to serve the community by issuing a warning, but without details, it's not very useful. This is not a request for details, but rather, maybe in the future, just give the person the "1 more week" you mentioned, and maybe let the other party know your plans, then if he/she doesn't come through with either results or valid explanation (serious life event) that you can live with, open the flood gates and let it sort itself out.

This isn't an attack on the OP, just a suggestion. Hope it works out.