Be careful how you answer.

I needed a wife when my hormones were raging.
Since all my hormones were forced into early retirement by said wife, I don't need no steenkeng wife no more.
But, since I made her a promise on our wedding day,
44years/3weeks/and 4days ago.....
I don't see a way out of this, nor am I looking for one, nor will I be, if her spirit gets recalled first. One trip thru the wringer was enough.
Maybe a change in attitude might help.