Ok here is the end of the job story. Today HR called and says the reason she was told they that they hired the other guy is one time when I did sub lead which would have been here alone I did not handle the responsibility of the job as they thought it should have been. I said this is the 1st I heard that. She said dont get disappointed because the choice may not work out and I will be up next. I told her thank you but no thanks I will not play 2nd fiddle if it dont work out bring in someone from the outside.