When to give up?

Serious Struggle. Are you fused? I have read many of your posts concerning your back issues, sorry I don't remember. I hope you and your significant other can get it sorted. A huge mountain to climb when you are in that kind of pain. Communication is difficult without px much less with the oppressive cloud it presents when intolerable. Much luck. I believe I speak for everyone when I say post away, if they don't like it, they can click on another thread. The beauty of FABO.

Stay strong.